tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post5621793527217881628..comments2023-10-22T10:06:06.652-05:00Comments on She Accessorizes Well: Sticks & StonesDebbi@SheAccessorizesWellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02888489368256761571noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-37031249501913656482011-11-04T10:24:15.860-05:002011-11-04T10:24:15.860-05:00If you don't have anything nice to say, then d...If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't comment, right? I have read some pretty crappy, mean things on blogs too. It is all just nonsense. It is always anonymous too. cowards. I love your redheaded dog. Your jacket is perfect for Fall with the trim, great layering piece Debbie. Have a great weekend darling and stay encouraged. Thank you for dropping in to visit me. Dawn Suitcase Vignettes xoDawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01278810042259663607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-21234120451570452122011-11-03T20:44:12.438-05:002011-11-03T20:44:12.438-05:00You dog is indeed a ham! He is adorable.
I too ha...You dog is indeed a ham! He is adorable.<br />I too have had some slightly off comments. At the end of a hard day it would be easy to let my fingers overload my ass. But I to have learned to take it with a grain of salt. I have never been anything but nice (Of course that is my nature) while blogging.<br />I have come to love all of my blogging friends and appreciate all of those in our little community. We all need the support of other women. Not to tear down, but to build up.<br />So I say Viva la bloggy friends!<br />By the way I love the jacket!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10555586137811044276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-91868424224680047262011-11-03T18:00:19.739-05:002011-11-03T18:00:19.739-05:00@Anonymous Hi, thank you for stopping by the blog....@<a href="#c5218320399914891526" rel="nofollow">Anonymous</a> Hi, thank you for stopping by the blog. I want to tell you that you made my day with your comments. Really, truly made my day. thank you.Debbi@SheAccessorizesWellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02888489368256761571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-25391200873014590882011-11-03T18:00:19.529-05:002011-11-03T18:00:19.529-05:00@Anonymous Hi, thank you for stopping by the blog....@<a href="#c5218320399914891526" rel="nofollow">Anonymous</a> Hi, thank you for stopping by the blog. I want to tell you that you made my day with your comments. Really, truly made my day. thank you.Debbi@SheAccessorizesWellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02888489368256761571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-40181400399884453882011-11-03T15:19:49.287-05:002011-11-03T15:19:49.287-05:00Love out little blogging community--it's like ...Love out little blogging community--it's like a little support group really.<br />Love the collar on your jacket--it almost looked like your hair grew at first--lol.<br />It's never just about the clothes.....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15031246468893452366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-61860233025031947792011-11-03T13:08:44.922-05:002011-11-03T13:08:44.922-05:00Wow, wow, wow. I love your bigger photos, yeahhhhh...Wow, wow, wow. I love your bigger photos, yeahhhhhhhhhhhh. i can see you at last.<br /> I read Pam´s post and I couldn´t agree more with her.<br />You are gorgeous, and so is your dog.<br />XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXmispapelicoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11209220366975722334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-52183203999148915262011-11-03T10:53:47.104-05:002011-11-03T10:53:47.104-05:00Debi,
You are very kind and sane, which is basica...Debi,<br /><br />You are very kind and sane, which is basically why I read you. I really only stumbled on your blog trying to answer the question "how old is too old to keep wearing jeans?" and initially I thought I wasn't interested in reading a fashion blog when my own look leans more to aging hippie. But I've continued to read it because you are such a sane, calm, and damnit NICE voice in a mean world. I recently got back from on of those long bruising visits with friends I no longer have much in common with and the first place I went online trying to reorient myself was your blog. <br /><br />I grew up totally clueless about clothes and dressed entirely from what my mother could find at the Goodwill or Salvation Army. So believe me, I got put down pretty much on a daily basis. So I can really empathize.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-622754148017542972011-11-03T06:21:05.130-05:002011-11-03T06:21:05.130-05:00I have a feeling you'll be outside despite the...I have a feeling you'll be outside despite the cold with your four footed friend. His coat looks plenty warm. <br /><br />I once paid a thearpist $110 an hour to tell me that things I thought or said about other people were often a reflection of my own opinions of myself. Be kind to others, be kind to yourself!RoseAGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01360864547510178832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-51311165918005274422011-11-03T05:26:32.989-05:002011-11-03T05:26:32.989-05:00I agree that the supportive nature of the blogging...I agree that the supportive nature of the blogging world is its finest feature. There's a lot of negativity out there, elsewhere, but it's all about carving out your own space and embracing the positive. (Just like your adorable, happy-looking doggie is doing!)AnPhibianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14308541800877192868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-47532563935266566372011-11-02T23:22:01.148-05:002011-11-02T23:22:01.148-05:00i love the fur on your coat, and how great are TOM...i love the fur on your coat, and how great are TOMS?!!! i have a summer pair in coral that i love a lot. they're soooo comfy.<br /><br />i have to say that i've been so encouraged by the blogging community. they're so positive and i find it really a blessing to find such a supportive group. it's unlike many other worlds. i hope that people can continue to be kind to each other!<br /><br />spinning-threads.blogspot.comClairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00429333754999861760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-13898107901011736352011-11-02T22:39:48.503-05:002011-11-02T22:39:48.503-05:00What a fun jacket! Your dog is the cutest thing, a...What a fun jacket! Your dog is the cutest thing, and I agree about remembering "there but for the grace of God go I," and giving each other the benefit of the doubt.Susan Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16005855250089328310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-28349243700356242902011-11-02T21:22:27.473-05:002011-11-02T21:22:27.473-05:00Love your jacket and the vintage fur is a great to...Love your jacket and the vintage fur is a great touch. Also adore your Tom's shoes, and such a great cause. Great post and adorable dog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-10594710156886202802011-11-02T20:54:42.204-05:002011-11-02T20:54:42.204-05:00Very thoughtful post, Debbi. Words can hurt, as mu...Very thoughtful post, Debbi. Words can hurt, as much as or more than sticks and stones. You are one of the kindest people I've met in the blog-world, I can't imagine anyone taking offense at your post.<br /><br />Love your look, and your Harry!Patti @ NotDeadYet Stylehttp://notdeadyetstyle.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-80064355765591674312011-11-02T20:31:43.381-05:002011-11-02T20:31:43.381-05:00Dear Debbi,
I am so distraught that you and Pam m...Dear Debbi,<br /><br />I am so distraught that you and Pam may be referring to me as being unkind by my bracelet swap post. Please email me privately and let me know. If it is the case I will publicly apologize and take down my blog. I NEVER,EVER was considered a mean girl and at the age of 50 don't want to start being one now.<br />Lesa<br />skyroxy@bellsouth.netLesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01738732651488533752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-20515974261404975782011-11-02T20:01:35.237-05:002011-11-02T20:01:35.237-05:00It is so true that we need to be careful about how...It is so true that we need to be careful about how we say things and also about misinterpreting what people do and say.<br /><br />I'm loving those pants and shoes together and dying over those arrows on your wall.<br />-Meagan<br />www.spunkychateau.comMeaganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13744210106203214848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-89273102434418886602011-11-02T19:42:06.893-05:002011-11-02T19:42:06.893-05:00Thanks for the mention of my post Debbie...I appre...Thanks for the mention of my post Debbie...I appreciate your comments so much! You said two really important things here: First it is so easy to misunderstand something that is written and not said face to face...we should check it out before over reacting...and second, we should have the courage to help others when they think they might need it. Again, iron sharpens iron!! Love your jacket!Pam @ over50feeling40https://www.blogger.com/profile/15271159201006142602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-51838804590796627392011-11-02T19:18:21.649-05:002011-11-02T19:18:21.649-05:00Love the fur collar and the metallic shoes!
I rea...Love the fur collar and the metallic shoes!<br /><br />I really agree with you. The blog world is so supportive, I get annoyed at the rest of the internet for the bullying and childish put-downs. <br /><br />I've been grateful for all the strong support of wonderful people every single day. I try to pass that back as much as possible. People need to know they are better than they are given credit for. Everyone deserves to be told nice things. It's possible to be constructive, and have some decency. I think the fashion blog world (for the most part) is good about this.Megan Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10169811757787686946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4978297467436094053.post-41551572460714397722011-11-02T19:11:08.459-05:002011-11-02T19:11:08.459-05:00Debbie I totally support what you are saying.
I h...Debbie I totally support what you are saying.<br /><br />I have never been comfortable with receiving or the giving of criticism and think that anyone who has a nasty thought or comment should be very cautious how or if they deliver the message. It should be constructive not destructive.<br /><br />Comments in emails do not show body language or give a tone of voice or truly reflect how the message is meant, they are so cut and dried that it can be hurtful even if it was not the intention. <br /><br />My Mother always told us that if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all. <br /><br />I still believe that this is a good policy.<br /><br />I do not think anyone could take offense from this post.hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.com